Craig wrote a ceremony that sounded so much like us that three different friends asked if we'd written it ourselves. We hadn't. He had just listened.Hannah & DevonDetroit, MI · Sept. 2024

I'm Craig — ordained since 2019, husband since longer, and the friend most likely to cry at your toast. I started officiating because friends kept asking, and the friends of friends kept asking after that. It turns out that a wedding ceremony, done with care, can be the most honest thing in the whole day.
I don't do templates. Every ceremony begins with an unhurried conversation — about how you met, what you fight about, what you read at breakfast — and ends with a draft you'll actually want to keep. We rehearse. We trim. We make sure your grandmother understands the joke.
Send your date, your venue, and a few sentences about the two of you. I'll write back within 48 hours.
We meet on Zoom or in person for ninety minutes. I ask questions; you do most of the talking. This is the part everyone says they enjoyed.
Six weeks out, I send a first draft. We edit together over a call or two — cutting, rewording, adding the inside jokes.
I arrive early, run rehearsal, and stand at the front of the room. You say yes. Your mother cries. Everyone applauds.
Craig wrote a ceremony that sounded so much like us that three different friends asked if we'd written it ourselves. We hadn't. He had just listened.Hannah & DevonDetroit, MI · Sept. 2024
We were so nervous about the ceremony being the boring part. It ended up being the part everyone called us about the next day.Priya & JamesAnn Arbor, MI · May 2024
He showed up the night before, calmed down my whole family, ran the rehearsal twice, and somehow remembered every guest by name at brunch.Mara & TessaGrosse Pointe, MI · Oct. 2023

The more I know about who you are and what you want, the better the conversation. There's no wrong answer to any of this.